Four rules you must know if you want to be successful with women
The first way to acquire true wisdom is to admit to yourself that you don’t know everything, and that you are willing to learn new things. Okay, now that we have that out of the way let’s get started. Similar to riding a bike, becoming a ladies man takes practice. No one in the world just wakes up and knows how to be a ladies man; you have to learn how to become one, and more importantly you have to experience the advantages and disadvantages of being one. A ladies man is also known as, a male player, but unlike the player image, a ladies man has a more positive connotation. Ladies man: A smooth operator/gentleman who fulfills women desires. Just like any other curriculum, there are always basic rules to remember and follow, let’s get into them.
Rule #1 Pay attention to details. Paying attention to details can be the deal breaker that makes or breaks you. To react to anything properly you have to know somewhat of what’s going on. For example, if you wanted to launch a counter attack on your enemy’s lands, you must know a little about the lands that you are forceful trespassing. The landscape, what areas are defended more, where the military bases are, and where do the civilians stay; these are all details that must be considered for a successful offensive campaign. There’s no difference when it comes to talking to women. Paying attention to details can be your greatest asset when trying to acquire a beautiful lady’s number. Pay attention to her questions, her response time, and her eye movement. Pay attention to what she orders to eat, what she likes to do in her spare time and what she says and how she says it.
Rule # 2 Show Confidence. It’s best to show a woman that you are man enough to go after what you want, and in approaching a woman with sheer confidence without hesitation will show her this. If you’re not a confident person naturally, then the best thing for you to do is to learn how to gain confidence quickly. Sorry to say fellas, but in most cases being fearful will not work; you will not get the girl, you will probably make an ass out of yourself, you will hesitate, and you probably will not make any more attempts for the rest of the day or night.
Rule # 3 Handling Rejection. The main reason why I have made this a significant rule is because rejection is not just associated with getting turned down by women, rejection is also associated with pretty much all aspects of life. There will always be a time when things work out and don’t work out for you. What do we do when things do not go in our favor? Well first of all we have to believe in our self and not be discouraged by opposition. Adversities will come into your life fast, like storm clouds covering a small field, but it’s what we do while the storm is here, and what we do after the storms passes is what makes us stronger. We have to stay positive and keep going forward no matter the adversity; this is how and why some people’s dreams come true compared to others whose dreams do not. Getting rejected by women is no different guys it’s going to happen; it’s only a matter of time. I don’t understand how some guys just lose all hope after a minor rejection. First of all, you don’t know if a woman has had a lousy day or is in a bad mood, you don’t know if she just likes a certain type of race or gender. Believe it or not, some women just have attitudes for no particular reason just because they think they can. So there should be no reason for you to get mad because she has an attitude or if you harshly find out that you’re not her type. Just like she has a preference in the type of person she chooses, so do you. Your job is to not to worry about the small stuff, your job is to convince her that no matter who you are and how you look being with you is better than being with the other guy. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Surprisingly, it all comes down to confidence and courage, you have to be brave enough to approach and talk, brave enough to make a mistake, and brave enough to get rejected and try again.
Rule #4 Styles and Swagger. Unique: having no like or equal; unparalleled; incomparable. Having style and swagger is similar to being unique. The average person is banal and acts like the next person; it’s funny how everyone mimics everyone in one way or another. Having style and swagger sets you apart from the average guy which is an A+ on your part. Let it be known that you are different, and you have something new and mysterious to offer. The best way to appear different is to create a new style and stick with it, no matter the opposition.
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