This article ( The Truth about Nice guys) is for all the nice guys out there having problems succeeding in life, whether it’s relationship or career issues. Please pay close attention because this will be my last article about nice guys for a while. Contrary to popular belief, there is no real problem with being a nice guy; being nice will help you advance to greater heights in life. Your kindness let’s people know that your friendly and somewhat approachable, which is a huge asset in the business world. When it comes to relationships, women love nice guys. Why would a woman want a guy who treats her bad? Think about it! The problem with being nice in relationships is that women want more than just a nice guy. Listen closely because so many guys get this wrong, women want men, not boys so you can’t make a woman more attracted to you by treating her extra nice.
You can’t flood a woman with gifts and good gestures and expect her to return the favor. You can’t call a woman eight times a day and expect her to be comfortable with that. You can’t be too needy and expect her not to push you away. You can’t whine to her by expressing your deep feelings and expect her not to view you as a wimpy man. Ultimately, you can’t make a woman your personal Idol because you will lose every time. Many guys would say they don’t want to be considered an jerk and mistreat women, but “News Flash”, that’s wrong behavior as well my friends. The reason why women like bad boys and guys who mistreat them is because those guys indirectly exhibit leadership traits by their exotic,fearless, and adventurous nature. So the most important attribute that nice guys need is the ability to display leadership traits in their life. Believe it or not, women want to follow their boyfriends and husbands, but if men fail at being good leaders then they will fall into the nice guy category.( Passive aggressive, lazy, spineless, and fearful) People follow leaders in all aspects of life. Ask yourself would you follow someone who is unsure about whom they are or where they are going? I’m not saying that nice guys are unsure about themselves, but what’ I’m trying to get across is that being a leader is so vital when it comes to being a real man. So if you’re a nice guy who wants to be successful with women and in life than you have to become a leader in your own bubble. Now don’t look at this wrong, I’m not saying you have to be a general in the Army, but you have to be confident in yourself and a leader in your relationship or marriage. The problem here is that guys nowadays don’t exactly know how to be good leaders, but I have good news, leadership can be learned if you’re disciplined and willing to change certain aspects about your personality.
Here are a few leadership traits:
• Be Decisive– Able to make tough decisions
• Be Confident- Confidence always wins, remember that!
• Be a Man of Action – Getting things done without talking
• Be Responsible – Take Responsibility for your actions
• Be Respectful- You can’t get respect until you give it
• Be Patience – A wise man is a patient man
• Be Fearless- People who are fearless tend to get what they want out of life.
• Be Courageous– Being brave when there is danger around
• Self-Ownership – Owning who you are and not caring what others think about you.
So in a nutshell it’s okay to be a nice guy, but remember you must first learn how to be a real man who is well-rounded.
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