Top 5 reasons why you’re a boring person

Let’s face it, the majority of people in this world can feel like they have a boring life at times. Ask yourself this question, in a week’s time how often do you feel drained of energy? Now of course we can’t have fun all the time, but there’s some people although very busy still never seem to have a dull moment in life. These are the type of people who see their glass half full instead of half empty. These are the the people who understand that we have only one life to live and will not sit around wasting it. In this article, I will explain the top five reasons why you’re a boring person. Let’s get started.

 

1st Reason: You have a closed mind: People who experience more in life are some of the most open-minded people you will ever meet, in other words, they will try anything new or risky.An open minded person is willing to try new things quicker than a closed minded person, and will be more comfortable with change. So the first reason why you’re a boring person could be because you have a closed mind and are not willing to try anything new in your life,so open your mind to new adventures, places, and people in your life.

 

2nd Reason- Stress & Depressed:  These two go hand and hand because usually a person who is constantly stressed out tends to become depressed faster in many cases, but not all. Depression happens when we focus on the wrong thing for so long that it eventually starts to affect our body and way of thinking. It’s almost like you’re trapped in a dark cloud and can’t see your way out. People who are stressed out and depressed will not want to have fun or try new things; they will just stay inside away from people and continue their cycle of negative thinking. The best way to break out of depression is to change your paradigm of thinking. Easier said than done, right? Yes, indeed, depression is a tough problem to shake, but with time, action, and sometimes medication, you can beat it.

 

3rd Reason-No Vision:  Ever heard the bible saying, “without a vision the people will perish.”  When you have no vision, then you have no reason to pursue anything.  People who have no vision become complacent in their lives and end up bitter and resentful. Having a vision makes your life more exciting and worth-wild because you have something to fight and look for. Usually boring people have no clear vision of what’s next in their lives; they live in the moment, and the moment lives in them.

 

4th Reason- Afraid of change: This is one of the main reason many people are bored with their lives. People in general are afraid of change rather positive or negative, and are naturally at ease to whatever is comfortable for them. If you want to be a more exciting person, then stepping out of your comfort zone is a must. You must face your fears dead on and not be afraid of change if you want anything significant to happen in your life.

 

5th Reason- You give up: Usually when a person gets married and decides to have kids, their life will naturally slow down. Their sense of excitement is buried in work and providing for their family. Going to work, coming home to take care of the kids, and then falling asleep to do it again becomes the new norm. The weekends tend to be encapsulated with chores around the house and spending time with the in-laws. Now just as much as this process makes sense, it also doesn’t make any sense what so ever. Never give up your desire to have fun and stay sane. If you have kids and a tough work schedule, then you’re going to have to be more creative in your endeavors. Overall, people who are very out-going and adventurous tend to live a happier and longer in life.

 

 Below, I’ve formulated a list of not so boring things to do that will get you back in the game.

 



 

For Men

  • Go to a football game
  • Go canoeing
  • Go to a sports bar
  • Go hunting
  • Go play Paint ball
  • Go Play Golf
  • Go jogging a few times a week
  • Go to a concert
  • Join a Men’s group
  • Play Beach Volley ball
  • Play Basketball
  • Have a Guys night out
  • Go mountain climbing
  • Go Surfing
  • Go workout
  • Go to main events
  • Go networking

 

For Women

  • Start up a Book club
  • Go to local fashion shows
  • Do aerobics
  • Get your nails done
  • Go to bars or clubs
  • Go swimming
  • Tan in the summer
  • Go to the hair salon
  • Go shopping
  • Go to main events
  • Go to concerts
  • Try new makeups
  • Go to meet up groups
  • Go get a massage

 

For Couples

  • Go on a road trip
  • Go to the aquarium
  • Go dancing
  • Go on a date once a week
  • Go Sky diving
  • Go to wine tastings
  • Go to the movies
  • Go to a play
  • Play board games with other couples
  • Go to an upscale restaurant once a month
  • Go horseback riding.
  • Go abroad for vacation
  • Go camping
  • Go to concerts

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